A Lifetime Performance

When you were with Charles, you were the most important person in the world to him. His time, money, talents, and very life were continuously offered to others. We received all this and relished in who he was. Charles loved sipping Margaret's Hope 2nd Flush Darjeeling and buying coffee for as many people as he could at Lux. He sometimes arrived at his Tuesday morning book study unprepared because he had given his book away. He had photographic memory. He had "absolute pitch"; play any note, on any instrument, and he could name or replay that note. At the age of 24, he had already composed four symphonies, three operas, multiple piano and organ works, a host of songs for voice and piano/orchestra accompaniment, string quartets and piano trios. He traveled extensively. He learned several languages; German particularly fluently. He performed many recitals at private concerts around the world, premiered and recorded works from some of the world's most exemplary living composers. Yet, foremost, we discovered rather quickly the thing which was closest to Charles' heart and soul: Jesus Christ; his mother, Louise; and everyone else he met. Charles gave us an understanding of what a life given to others looks like, feels like, and sounds like.

Thursday, December 3, 2009

How did Charles die?

[Updated 3 Dec 2009; crossed out items are followed by updated information]

The investigation into Charles accident is still ongoing, but it's important to know that Charles did not suffer.

Based on the police report and an interview with one of the police officers who was at the scene, the facts we know are these:

At about 5:50am on Thursday, November 12th, Charles’ red Acura veered off route 77 just outside Globe, hit an embankment a few feet from the edge of the road, and flipped over. He was wearing his seat-belt and the dual airbags deployed immediately. 

According to the police officer I spoke with Seargent Olivarez, that stretch of road is heavily traveled at that time of morning, so it was no surprise that a 911 call was made when someone saw his car flip. About five minutes later, Globe police officers arrived someone helped Charles out of his car by cutting his seat belt.

When the officers Robert Jones, Globe's Investigating Officer, arrived to the scene it was almost 6:30am. Charles had no visible signs of accident-related injuries and was alive and talking.  
Charles talked for several a few minutes with Officer Jones, repeatedly asking him to take a seat, "You're in shock, sir. You need to sit down and rest". But you know Charles....he said he was fine. [The autopsy results will be posted here the instant they are available. According to Seargent Olivarez, that will be about mid-December.

When the Emergency Medical Technicians arrived on the scene, it had been about 30 minutes since the accident. The One of the police officers again asked Charles to sit and rest. At last, Charles agreed, commenting that he didn't feel very well. He sat down. He laid onto his back. "Immediately," said Officer Jones, "His breathing became very shallow. A second later, he passed."

The EMT's tried to revive him, but without success. 

Authorities believe the accident, and his death, may have resulted from a medical condition.  The initial observation of the medical examiner is that Charles may have had Pneumonia. At the time of the accident - and for several weeks before it, according to more than a dozen 50 people I've interviewed, Charles had been fighting a terrible cold, perhaps even pneumonia - I've heard numerous first-hand reports of his paleness of skin, exessive coughing, weakness, losing weight, falling asleep during piano lessons, etc.); but, as was Charles way, he didn't want to disappoint his students and didn't complain.

However, it is important, critical even, to keep in mind that these are just educated guesses. When the autopsy report is in hand, I will confirm things.
Words do not exist to make what has happened any less tragic or any easier to understand. We all assume we'll be here until we're in our 80's, but the truth is, none of us knows when our the end will come. 

We all had the blessing of Charles in our lives. We know how much he loved us and how much he meant to us. And he knew how much he was loved as well. While we're grasping for answers to "how" and "why now", there is a welcoming comfort in learning how great the numbers are in the individuals who will carry his memory in our lives and in our hearts. May those who've never met Charles find a part of him in us.


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5 comments:

Nancy said...

I am only a friend of a friend of Charles. I never met him, but am moved by who he must have been and the way he touched people's lives. I think the important thing about Charles was how he lived his life. And it sounds as though he truly LIVED. We should all take a lesson from that. I am glad that he knew Jesus and is home. I am glad that he continues to affect people's lives and hearts. I glad that he was part of this world, if only for a short time.

Unknown said...

Do we have any updated information about why he died? /tomhorne2824@gmail.com

Joey Robert Parks said...

Tom, Thanks for asking. I've fallen behind on updating this site. Wish I had more hours in the day. There is more information on why Charles/Kevin died. Let me check with his mother and see if she's okay with me posting it. If you don't hear from me in a few days, feel free to email me at joey@joeyrobertparks.com and follow up.

Jodi said...

I was one of Kevin's best friends at Roosevelt Jr High in Utah. I loved listening to him play and at times we practiced for band together. I remember when he got his first (very expensive) stereo system. He was so excited. I went to his house and we listened to records for hours. We went to our first dance together, as well as many other firsts. He would share his dreams of owning the best piano made, playing his piano around the world, being recorded and teaching. He was amazing even at the age of 12-15. We talked often of his love for the Savior and our religious beliefs. He was one of the kindest, gentle souls I have ever met. We lost contact in 1976 when we both moved. My heart was broken, I lost one of my best friends. I had always wanted to reconnect. I pray for him and his family....until we meet again. A small part of my heart is yours Kevin.

Unknown said...

We met Charles when we bought a piano from a friend of his. He was a beautiful man who not only allowed the child I paid to learn but any of the foster children in the house who were interested in music. We knew him several years when I got the call that put a huge hole in our lives.
It is once again, the day the music died! Our hearts still ache to this day. He has lived on in the lessons he taught and the legacy of the love for music.
We still miss you "Mr. C". ��❤️��